i think i killed a chinaman

To say i've had a shit of a week is an under-statement. I think, i not only run over the chinaman but buried his body on top of all the other chinamen i ran over!!.. I had a phone call from the school yesterday, Aaryn was mucking up yet again, this time though, he had overstepped the mark by calling a Special Ed girl, dumb and stupid..so off I went like the good mother one want's to be to the principals office. (I was so glad the new deputy was there, the other deputy drives me mental, i always feel like i should hand him a mirror so he can look at himself, his nicname is Ken so that gives you an idication of what he's like). Anyway after a lot of OMG i am so ashamed of you Aaryn, I thought you would know better.. blah blah..(considering his brother was in the SEU for ages).. I looked at him firmly and said..I simply cant believe that you would torment and tease, not just an SEU student BUT a little girl..WELL, he squared his shoulders, stood up and said in a very loud voice...LITTLE??? LITTLE??? she's big and huge and FAT and way bigger than me..she is certainly NOT LITTLE..and anyway she choked me first..." I couldn't look at his teacher, all i could see was his teachers shoulders moving up and down, nothing was said..the deputy was looking out the window, his shoulders were moving..I had to stand there, not move, not laugh, and try to take control of the situation, all i could mutter was.."oh, ok"..once his teachers had controlled themselves, I asked if anything was being done about the bullying, ie: aaryn being stabbed, thumped, CHOKED almost on a daily basis..SO finally they are looking into that..the girls mother was due in after me to discuss her daughter choking aaryn, i certainly wasn't hanging around to confront her (i know the family, lets say, the girl takes after her mother and she's very scary and yes I'm a chicken)..I asked the deputy if perhaps the school councillor could have a chat to the little snot as i am at my wits end with him..SO, got home, was getting ready for dentist, and he rings, had a nice long chat, few tears, etc, and he now wants me to take Aaryn to the paediatrician as with all the things the school have told him and with what we discussed ,it looks like Aaryn has Asperger's Syndrome too (so that makes all my boys!). I had thought it in my head for quite a while, but because he's not like the other 2 sort of full on etc, I assumed he had sort of copy cat syndrome, to get attention..but, now i'm not so sure. SO..ring the paediatrician, cant get it until july, but that's ok, the councillor is going to do me up a letter, so it wont take too long to reach the diagnosis (Cam took 3 years!!)..SO that was the icing on the cake....I've finished work for the week, so my weekend has officially started! so lets hope, it's a good one and next week is a new week!!